The peer table for technology leaders

Where CIOs think out loud, off the record.

Eight vetted technology leaders. One hard decision. Worked through in 90 minutes under the Chatham House Rule, with no vendors in the room and a brief you can take to your board.

  • No vendor pitches
  • Chatham House Rule
  • Peer-vetted
  • Leave in two clicks
On the table

Which AI use cases do we fund, gate or kill this quarter?

90 minutes · Chatham House
  1. CIOGlobal insurer
  2. CISORetail group
  3. CIOHealth system
  4. CTOLogistics
  5. CDORegional bank
  6. CIOManufacturer
  7. CIOPublic sector
  8. HostFormer CIO
Illustrative seating: roles, never names.
  • AI governance
  • Clean core
  • FinOps
  • Cyber resilience
  • Agentic AI
  • Product operating model
  • Board reporting
  • Technical debt
  • Zero trust
  • Third-party risk
  • Platform engineering
  • First 100 days
  • EU AI Act
  • DORA
Seats per table
8
Small enough that everyone speaks, large enough for real range.
Vendors in the room
0
No sponsors, no sales roles. Nobody buys access to members.
Minutes, one decision
90
Framed in advance, worked fully, closed with a commitment.
Brief you keep
1
Two anonymized pages you can adapt for your board.

01Why a table

The hardest calls in the job don’t fit on a keynote stage.

Most CIO gatherings are built for sponsors. CIO Cafe is built for the moment you need a peer who has already made the call you’re about to make, and who has nothing to sell you.

The usual circuit

  • Keynotes and panels you could have watched later
  • Vendor dinners where the host has a quota
  • Two hundred badges, three real conversations
  • Slides that repeat what every analyst said
  • Nothing to take to the board on Monday

A CIO Cafe table

  • Eight vetted peers matched by role, scale and problem
  • No vendors, sponsors or sales roles, by rule
  • One decision, framed in advance, worked for 90 minutes
  • What actually happened, including what went wrong
  • An anonymized Field Brief, ready for your board

02Inside a table

Ninety minutes, drawn to scale.

The same shape every time. No minute goes on logistics or introductions. Pick a topic to preview a real-format table brief.

  1. Frame10 min

    The decision in one sentence, and the constraint that makes it hard.

  2. Peer cases45 min

    Two or three members who faced it describe what they did and what it cost.

  3. Pressure-test25 min

    The table challenges assumptions. The host keeps it on the decision.

  4. Commit10 min

    A stated next step. The Field Brief follows within a week.

Members
AI governancePre-read · 9 min Chatham House

Which AI use cases do we fund, gate or kill this quarter, and who signs off when something goes wrong?

  1. How are peers tiering AI use cases by risk, and where does each tier get approved?
  2. What evidence convinced the board: model inventory, incident log, or value tracking?
  3. Which controls from NIST AI RMF and ISO/IEC 42001 were worth the effort, and which were theater?
Sample takeawayStart with an inventory and a one-page risk tiering. Ship guardrails for the top tier first; don't try to govern everything on day one.
Illustrative table · 8 seats, matched by role and scale

03Membership

Everything is built around one decision at a time.

Tables are the core. Everything else helps you arrive prepared and leave with something you can use.

Tables

Monthly tables of eight, matched to your problem

A host, a framed question and a ten-minute pre-read. You spend the 90 minutes on the decision, not on introductions.

Field Briefs

Anonymized, board-ready takeaways

Two pages: the options, what peers chose, what they would change.

Ask the table

A peer answer in days, not quarters

CIO Pulse

A quarterly read on peer priorities

04Find your table

Three answers, and we’ll show you where you’d sit.

Runs entirely in your browser. Nothing is sent or stored.

Your role
Organization size
The decision keeping you up

Your recommended table

Matched by a host on request

The AI Governance Table

Which AI use cases do we fund, gate or kill, and who signs off?

Format
Founders’ Table: 8 sitting CIOs, 90 minutes, monthly
Peers
Paired with global-enterprise peers facing comparable complexity
Read first
AI Governance Playbook

05House rules

Trust is the product. These rules protect it.

“We will never write a testimonial for you, invent a number or borrow a logo. The table is the proof.
  1. Chatham House, always

    Use what you hear, never who said it. Never recorded.

  2. No one is selling

    No vendors, sponsors or sales roles at any table.

  3. Bring a decision

    Every table starts from a real, live decision.

  4. Say what went wrong

    The failure is the most valuable part of the story.

  5. Proof, not polish

    We never invent numbers, quotes or logos.

  6. Easy to leave

    Two clicks. We’d rather earn your next month.

Owner: verified member quotes (name, title, organization, with consent) go here once founding tables have met

06The library

Playbooks for the decisions that define the role.

Open to everyone, updated as the field changes. One canonical guide per decision, not fifty thin posts.

  1. AI governance · 12 minThe CIO’s AI Governance Playbook
  2. Leadership · 9 minThe CIO’s First 100 Days
  3. Reference · openThe CIO Glossary: 24 terms in plain language
  4. In the worksCore modernization business cases
  5. In the worksProving cyber recovery to the board

07Straight answers

Before you pull up a chair.

The questions CIOs ask first. More on the full FAQ.

Is what I say at a CIO Cafe table really off the record?

Yes. Every CIO Cafe table runs under the Chatham House Rule: you may use what you hear, but never attribute it to a person or an organization. Tables are not recorded. The Field Brief that follows is anonymized and reviewed by the people at the table before it circulates.

Will vendors or sponsors be in the room?

No. Tables are closed to vendors, sponsors and sales roles. Nobody can buy access to members, attendee lists or contact details. If CIO Cafe ever takes sponsorship, it will fund public research, never seats at the table, and that will be disclosed on this page.

How much time does membership take?

Plan on one 90-minute table a month and a pre-read of about ten minutes. Asking peers questions between tables is optional. Tables are scheduled around quarter-end and board cycles, not over them.

Who can join CIO Cafe?

CIO Cafe is for sitting CIOs and the leaders who share their decisions: CTOs, CDOs, CISOs and VPs on the CIO track. Every application is reviewed by hand so that each table stays peer-level. See who it is and isn’t for.

What does it cost?

You will see the full terms before you commit to anything: price, renewal date and how to cancel. Cancelling takes two clicks, with no phone call. Founding-cohort terms are shared with applicants during review. Owner: publish pricing here once set

Can I leave whenever I want?

Yes. You can leave from your account in two clicks. No retention call, no exit interview and no guilt copy.

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